Would it be possible to have an exclusion list when sending out a email notification, i.e.: if the host is a shared with the family then I don't want to get notified when I'm logging in cause I know..  

However, I would like to know if another users logs in when I'm not there..  Big Brother I know, but.....

You can add a schedule for maintenance mode for the hours you know you are home. This way you will not receive any notification from the system until the maintenance mode ends.

Thanks, that is an option - but my hours differ every day/week (smarter working - so they call it) and plus there are 5 windows hosts in the house that I could log on to at any time to do windows schedule maintenance..    Would be easier having a whitelist.. :-)